Something Old - Something New?

Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a silver sixpence in your shoe.  This is a traditional rhymme, signifying different items that the bride should wear or carry about their person on their wedding day.  It is believed by doing so you will receive good fortune and future happiness.

Which side of the church do I sit on?

The left side of the church is the bride's side and the right side of the church is the groom's side.  If the two sides look uneven it's a perfectly acceptable practice for the ushers to escort guests to the side that has less people.  Remember if it's a Jewish wedding, switch sides...bride on the right, groom on the left.

Receiving Line - What is the correct order?

A formal receiving line is where the bride and groom line up with both sets of parents and greet each guest as they come into the reception. Usually the brides parents would be first in line, followed by the grooms parents and finally the bride and groom.  However, it can be just the couple that receive their guests. If both sets of parents are in the line, it might be wise to go through the guest list together before the day so that everyone knows the guests’ names. If there are a lot of guests, this can cause quite a queue, so you might decide on an alternative way of saying ‘hello’ to everyone. One option is for the bride and groom to walk around and have a chat with guests on each table during the reception.

Speeches – What is the correct order for speeches?

The normal order for speeches is; Father of the Bride (or close family friend), the Groom and the Best Man.  If desired they may be followed by the Bride and finally the Chief Bridesmaid.

Photography – Can we take photographs during the ceremony?

It is normal to take photos before and after the ceremony only.  Please check with the registrar.

Ceremony – What music can we play?

A civil ceremony is a non religious ceremony, because of this you are not allowed any hymns or religious songs or music.

Toast master – Who will make the announcements?

We are happy to make general announcements such as the arrival of the bride and groom and the cutting of the cake.  Alternatively why not ask one of the ushers to undertake these duties.

Top Table – where do I sit?

The Traditional Seating Plan is as follows.  We are happy to accommodate your requirements, with many couple opting for a more sociable round table for the top table.

When do we cut the cake?

Most couples choose to cut the cake after the starter.  This will then be served with coffee, after the toast, or during the evening reception.

Gifts – Where can our guests leave their gifts?

Our friendly staff are on hand to collect gifts from your guests.  These will be placed safely within your wedding suite until the end of the evening.

Confetti - Do you allow confetti

Confetti is permitted for outside use.  Bio-degradable is preferred.
 
 

Candles, Fireworks, Sky Lanterns  – Are they allowed?

Candles are permitted in certain rooms within the house, they must be in safe secure holders.  Please speak to the venue for further information. Fireworks and sky lanterns are not permitted.